I've heard bloggers use the term Wordless Wednesday, and without meaning to I had a wordless Wednesday. Several times I thought about what to write, and nothing inspired me from the book of Job yesterday, so I just didn't write. I figure quality vs. quantity might be a good thing.
To be honest....as far as my daily Bible reading I'm keeping up, but the chapters in Job the last two days have been incredibly boring and uninspiring......not even anything funny like Naked Noah or Job's Halitosis.
Those of you reading this know that on Wednesday nights I go to a church that has a Divorce Care class. Divorce Care is a curriculum that is used all over the country, and I must say is very good. http://www.divorcecare.org/ I started going to the class last November, but it was near the end of the session. A new session started last week, so I jumped back in. I also get their daily emails that I swear someone wrote just for me! I thought today I would just share some of the highlights and insight the first two sessions have given me.
**They spoke about how your emotions affect your energy- that when you're going through divorce 85% of your energy is spent on emotions, and that you only have 15% of your energy left for the everyday tasks of life like work, family, cleaning, hobbies, etc. Very true in the beginning, but I'm getting back my energy to do things like finally hanging pictures in my apartment, working on my resume, things that normal people do.
**Spiritual stability is crucial for recovery. Why? Because GOD is the only one who knows how deep the hurts are. He is the only one that can heal. Despite all your losses if you gain back your relationship with God- that's a good thing. I give that statement a thumbs up (and an Amen).
**The session last night ended with the question, "Will I truly heal?" The answer is yes- with time. Experts say it takes about 5 years to get over a divorce. I don't know that anyone truly completely gets over it, though.
It was also said that if we learn from divorce and go through refinement we have a much better chance to get over it. There's that word refinement again. Sounds like a pattern. :-)
I Corinthians 5:17Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
I know this journey has just begun, and I will go through many different emotions and phases of grieving. This was my status update on FB not too long ago:
Another great post from my bestie! My friend in college that had a rough upbringing when he would give his testimony always said that you can't live life looking in the rear view mirror. That's true...if you do you could wreck! A Pastor that came and spoke at my church growing up one time said "can't go back, can't stay here, gotta move forward". I still remember that from my childhood - made an impact obviously, but excellent truth to live by! Love you and love seeing what God is doing in your life!!!
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